A funeral represents a purposeful opportunity to reflect on the meaning of a life that has been lived, and to determine the impact of that meaning for the family and friends. There is no single proper funeral service. It is a time for human sharing in its deepest sense. You and the ones you love are at the very center of the process, and the choices you make will determine its significance for you. As you participate in the planning of the funeral experience, you will discover the true meaning of “a service of worth.”It is the funeral director’s goal to help people complete the relationship with the one who has died and to provide a climate that encourages each person to give and receive emotional support. During the funeral service, family and friends have the opportunity to relate to each other at the deepest levels and find mutual strength.
Sources of Counseling
It’s normal for some days to be better than others. Birthdays, anniversaries and holidays may present an unexpected reminder, triggering a flood of emotion. You may think that you should be past having these feelings, but don’t judge yourself too harshly.Special group seminars on these subjects may be available in your area. Organizations are also established to help with counseling. Foster Funeral Home or clergyperson can help you locate them, as well as local support groups for bereaved persons.